Thursday, June 23, 2011

What if they get what they want.....


Friends, I'm just sharing something that scares the hell out of me...
Ini adalah senarai tuntutan IFC yang di sokong oleh Ambiga....

i. Seseorang anak yang dilahirkan oleh ibu bapa orang Islam tidak seharusnya secara terus menjadi orang Islam.
Say they approved this, what would you do, bila anak kita, yang dilahirkan oleh  ibu bapa Islam, dibesarkan sebagai seorang Islam, tetapi bila berumur 18 tahun nak jadi bukan Islam? parents will have no say at all!
ii. Orang-orang bukan Islam yang telah memeluk agama Islam hendaklah diberikan kebebasan untuk kembali kepada agama asal mereka (murtad) dan tidak boleh dikenakan tindakan undang-undang.
Macam mana nak protect saudara baru macam ni?
iii. Sebarang kes pertukaran agama orang Islam kepada bukan Islam tidak sepatutnya dikendalikan oleh Mahkamah Syariah tetapi dikendalikan oleh Mahkamah Sivil.
iv. Tidak perlu dicatatkan didalam kad pengenalan seseorang Muslim bahawa ia beragama Islam.
To me tak pernah ada masalah pon ada tulis Islam kat ic tu... Kalau ada yang rasa bermasalah, tolong share ngan saya kenapa ye supaya kita nampak apa masalah sebenar. :-)
v. Orang bukan Islam tidak perlu dikehendaki menganut agama Islam sekiranya ingin berkahwin dengan orang Islam. Orang Islam hendaklah dibenarkan keluar daripada Islam (murtad) sekiranya ingin berkahwin dengan orang bukan Islam tanpa boleh dikenakan apa-apa tindakan undang-undang.
kalau betul, anak-anak jadi apa? Generasi kan datang jadi generasi macam mana pulak?
vi. Seseorang atau pasangan suami isteri yang menukar agamanya dengan memeluk agama Islam tidak patut diberikan hak jagaan anak.
Sapa pula yang dapat anak2 mereka? Kalau bawah umur lagi anak-anak mereka macam mana? Tak ke bakal menimbulkan kekecohan yang lebih teruk? Dengan undang-undang sedia ada pon susah nak selesaikan isu sebegini....
vii. Orang-orang bukan Islam yang mempunyai hubungan kekeluargaan dengan seseorang yang memeluk Islam hendaklah diberi hak menuntut harta pusakanya selepas kematiannya.
Tang harta nak pulak? So down to dollar and cent gak kan...
viii. Kerajaan hendaklah menyediakan dana yang mencukupi untuk membina dan menyelenggara rumah-rumah ibadah orang bukan Islam sebagaimana kerajaan menyediakan dana yang serupa untuk masjid.
Hmmmm.... Lepas tu Kerajaan dituduh tidak mendokong Islam sepenuhnya....
ix. Orang-orang bukan Islam hendaklah dibenarkan dan tidak boleh dihalang daripada menggunakan perkataan-perkataan suci Islam dalam percakapan dan sebagainya.
Apa pendapat yang lebih arif? Lepas ni ayat suci Islam, hanya sekadar bahasa? Nauzubillah....
x. Bible dalam bahasa Malaysia dan Bahasa Indonesia sepatutnya dibenarkan untuk diedarkan kepada umum secara terbuka.
Sekarang tak benarkan pon, kerajaan dah dituduh membenarkan murtad. kalau dibenarkan, tak tahu la apa nak jadi.
xi. Pelajaran agama bukan Islam untuk penganut agama itu hendaklah diajar disemua sekolah.
Kalau betul cara, tak mustahil boleh dijalankan. Tapi, kalau macam tu, tak bayah la sekolah Cina dan India, school system semua samakan je la...
xii. Program-program berunsur Islam dalam bahasa ibunda sesuatu kaum hendaklah ditiadakan. Program dakwah agama lain selain Islam pula hendaklah dibenarkan untuk disiarkan dalam bahasa ibunda masing-masing.
Pulak dah... Depa juga yang nak lebih. Sedih mengenangkan ada juga umat Islam yang sokong tuntutan ini.
xiii. Orang-orang Islam yang membayar zakat tidak sepatutnya dikecualikan daripada membayar cukai pendapatan dan wang hasil zakat sepatutnya digunakan juga untuk keperluan orang-orang bukan Islam.
Lagi sekali.... Duit juga yang mereka nak... Bayar zakat, bukat kecualikan terus, still kena cukai pendapatan juga. 
xiv. Sepatutnya Islam tidak disebut sebagai pilihan pertama masyarakat Malaysia seperti dalam soal pakaian menutup aurat kepada pelajar sekolah.
Setakat di sekolah disuruh pelajar bertudung, tak mengganggu pun. Sama seperti pelajar sesetengah sekolah Cina yang tidak membenarkan pelajar perempuan berambut panjang dan lelaki pula perlu hampir botak... Sebarang arahan pakaian uniform sekolah, sekadar melatih pelajar untuk berdisiplin dalam pemakaian. Di luar sekolah, mereka bebas memakai apa sahaja. 
Ps/– Orang Melayu perlu sedar tentang ini.Banyak cara menolak Islam sekaligus, menindas Melayu dijalankan secara halus. Buka hati dan minda sebelum sokong sesiapa. Akal dikurniakan untuk berfikir...

Correct me if I'm wrong. I'm just sharing some of my thoughts and oppinions...

Monday, June 20, 2011

Hmmmm.... What say you...

Ok... This thing is really starting to bug me.

This lady is the Chairman of BERSIH 2.0. Let us see who she is, n think for ourself the stories behind it... Hmmmm....

Nama : Ambiga Sreenevasan
1. Agama Hindu
2. Anti Islam
3. Penyokong Murtad

- Kerja jahat beliau
1. Menjadi peguam bela kes Lina Joy seorg wanita islam yg murtad
2. Menganjurkan forum pertikaikan kuasa mahkamah syariah melibatkan kemasukan org bukan islam masuk islam.
3. Pendokong dan Penggerak IFC (Inter Faith Comission/Suruhanjaya Antara agama) yg pernah mengatakan bhw perceraian dlm islam adalah zalim dan juga menyokong pluralisme agama.
4. Menawarkan khidmat guaman percuma kpd umat islam yg nak murtad skrnya dibawa ke mahkamah persekutuan.
5. Penyokong kuat kepada seorang wanita India yang nak mohon jadi peguam syarie dan nasib baik permohonan ditolak.



So... What say you?


P/S: credit to the person that SMS me this information. Thank you.

Kalau dah kata haram....

Aduaiii... Apasal la tak abis-abis pasal perhimpunan haram. Nama pon haram, dok kalut nak buat buat apa? Sat lagi kalut satu KL. tak serik ke dengan perhimpunan lepas-lepas? Seronok ke kecoh-kecoh tengah pekan tu. Depa tak tau ka, dengan buat semua kerja tak berfaedah tu, berapa ramai orang yang tak berkenaan terkena tempias kesusahan.
sat lagi, bila polis tak mau bagi permit, depa kata polis barua kerajaan, bila bagi permit, polis buat kawalan, depa kata polis menyusahkan. Suruh buat kat stadium, depa kata "tak dak ummpphhh". Haish... Betoi ke dak mission depa ni?

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Friday, April 8, 2011

Her Story ~ Kids say the darnest things...

Last night, as we were walking towards Tisya's reading class, tru all the shops and peoples...


Tisya : (mumbling...) Cheap perfume!
Mommy : what did you say kakak?
Tisya : Nothing!
Mommy : No, but I heard you say something?
Tisya : Nothing la mommy...
Mommy : You better tell me... I heard you say something?
Tisya : hehehe.... Cheap perfume..
Mommy : Why you say that?
Tisya : I smell something bad, and I say cheap perfume la...
Mommy : Who teach you to say that?
Tisya : Barbie Fairytale... The bad girl use cheap perfume to make the fairy work. The fairy sad oh no... cheap perfume... so I know la cheap perfume smell bad... Mommy : jaw dropped... enough said...

LOL... Luckly whoever that smell bad tu tak dengar apa yang Tisya cakap. If not, tak ke 'sentap hati mak nak' that fellow kan... But memang as we were wakling, I pon terbau someone pakai cheap perfume, tapi diam je la kan... Biar la dia nak pakai apa pun kan... Aduai.... Tisya, Tisya.... My Little Fashionista!

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

The Faces of ~ Rizq Mutalib

All this while been talking about Tisya je.... So introducing adik Tisya... Rizq Mutalib aka Dadek

Dadek posing with his new hat. I bought this cute hat from blog Cik Afzan ni.

Dadek with his hunky Papa aka my baby brother.


Dadek's first stuffs toy, Lotso Hugging Bear.He smells like strawberry...

Ok... that's all for now on my Rizq Mutalib.

Her Story ~ I'm a bit jealous...

Bedtime chat is one of the things I love to do with Tisya... Some sort of girl talk la konon kan...
So this one night, as we crawl early in bed because daddy has to go out...

Tisya : Mommy, I have something to tell you...
Mommy : What is it?
Tisya : Wait for daddy to go la... (with giddy face and nenen in her hand...)
Mommy : Why? Just tell me la...
Tisya : Cannot! It's a secret... Only girl can know...

Hahaha... I was already laughing and teasing her... Guessing about what she want to tell me. Then after daddy went out...

Tisya : Mommy, you know, Pipi has new girlfriend...
Mommy : What? How do you know? I thought you are his girlfriend? (I'm teasing her again...)
Tisya : Noooo... I'm not Pipi girlfriend. I'm just his friend! ( Started to get annoyed...)
Mommy : Ok..ok... tell me now, how do you know Pipi has girlfriend?
Tisya : Pipi told me la... when I was at Nanna's house...
Mommy : What else Pipi said?
Tisya : Pipi said I'm no longger his girlfriend because Pipi has new girlfriend at school.
Mommy : But you said you are not his girlfriend?
Tisya : eeiiisshhh... Mommy ni... Memang I'm not his girlfriend. Pipi said I'm his girlfriend. Kan daddy said I cannot have boyfriend...
Mommy : So you ok Pipi has new girlfriend?
Tisya : Yeah... I'm ok... but I'm a bit jealous... ( what? my baby knows how to be jealous already..)
Mommy : Really... why are you jealous? You are not even his girlfriend?
Tisya : I'm jealous because Pipi keep on talking about his girlfriend. He said he kiss his girlfriend. next time if I go to nanna's house, I'm gonna slap him if he keep on talking about his girlfried...
Mommy : but you cannot do that? Biar la Pipi ada girlfriend. You are still his friend. Tak baik tau slap orang.
Tisya : nooo... I only going to slap him if he talk about his girlfriend.
Mommy : wow... you are that jealous...
Tisya : No... just a little bit. I think next time I don't want to play with Pipi la..

Huhuhu... my baby dah tau jealous. Kisahnye, this boy Pipi, cucu neighbour Nanna Tisya. This boy kalau nampak Tisya, dia punya drama, Grade A... Panggil Tisya sweetheart, darling bagai.... So maybe thats why Tisya a bit jealous because the attention is suddenly not to her.... But no worries, the next time Tisya went to her Nanna's house, Pipi already calling... Tisya, My sweetheart, are you here?

Yeah... kids will be kids... We just need to guide them all the time... Just let them grow...(tho it's hard to do, almost, all the time...huhuhu...)...  Tisya, no matter what, Mommy hope you'll come to me... Just tell me anything... I love you Tisya...

Monday, April 4, 2011

Lagu Negaraku

Tiba-tiba je entry Lagu Negaraku...
Last week, I pergi sports day Tisya. As usually, masa perasmian, sure ada nyanyi lagu Negaraku, lagu sekolah dan lain-lain lagu yang  berkaitan. So masa lagu Negaraku, I pon dengan semangat nyanyi sama. Tapi yang sedihnya, budak-budak sekolah, still ada yg  berlari ke sana ke mari. Tak terkesan langsung dengan lagu kebangsaan yang sedang berkumandang. Tapi ok lagi, takpe, nama pon budak-budak. Sekali, ada juga pak cik-pakcik dan makcik-makcik yang sama je dengan budak-budak tadi.

Tak boleh nak kata apa la... Apa salahnya berdiri tegak diam-diam, kalau tak nak nyanyi sekali pon sebagai menghormati lagu kebangsaan. Setidak-tidaknya menghormati majlis. Kalau nak kata tak educated, tengokkan pakaian dan aksesori lebih dari educated.Jadi, apa yang I nak katakan cuma, kalau kita nak ajar anak-anak kita sayangkan negara, kita dulu kena sayangkan negara. Hormatkan lagu kebangsaan nampak macam perkara kecil, tetapi impaknya sangat besar. Sama-samalah kita belajar berdiri tegak bila dengar lagu kebangsaan sambil menerap semangat patriotik dalam diri kita.

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Life Rules #1 ~ Always use deodorant!

I'm sure everyone have been in my situation; stuck in a confined spaced, eg, the lift with somebody with bad BO! OMG... Tolong la, walaupun anda jatuh dalam kategori tidak mempunyai bau badan, tolong la gunakan DEODORANT! kecuali for those who are allergic to deodorants....

I think we have to educate people to take care of their personal hygiene. So many awareness campaign have been carried out for so many reason... why not about BO? Most of us couldn't bring our self to tell that person that he/she stink! But that poor soul most probably immune with his/her own body odour.

Kesian tau.. pakai cantik-cantik, sekali ada BO. Bayangkan kalau nak pergi interview ke, nak jumpa bakal mertua ke, tak ke pengsan nanti... kurang 50 markah. Elok-elok nak dapat kerja ke, silap-silap tak dapat.

So for those out there, be aware of your own body odour. Pakai la deodorant . Kalau ada perfume, pakai la sikit, api perfume pulak jangan la sampai too overwhelming pulak... tapi in next entry la pulak pasal too much perfume ye... Sekurang-kurangnya, dengan being aware of our surrounding juga, kita dapat sama-sama selesa berada di tempat awam. Go Deodorants!

Monday, March 28, 2011

Her Story ~ "Potong Q"

Yesterday we follow Daddy to support one of his fellow Pemuda, Iskandar, branch meeting. Then, it's time for makan...

Tisya : Mommy, I'm hungry. Lets go take food...
Mommy : Ask Daddy to take you please. Mommy have to take care of Dadek.
Tisya : ohh man... Daddy jom take food.
Daddy : Wait la.. the line is too long...
Tisya : It's ok. I can go myself.

So Tisya just went to the end of the line and line up. Waiting patiently for her turn. Then I told Daddy, please go teman your baby girl. Daddy went and came back. daddy said, Iskandar ask her what she wants, then...

Tisya : It's ok. In my school, we cannot potong Q. We have to wait in line. And I want to see what food they have from the beginning.
Daddy : ( In awe, walk straight back to me to tell me what Tisya said)

LOL... I was so proud of my baby girl. After waiting there for so long and the best part, she just take 2 pieces of sotong ball, 1 crab stick, and 1 karipap. Looking at her plate...
Mommy : You said you are hungry, why you take so little food?
Tisya : It's ok. I can go again later. maybe for dessert. I saw sugar donuts and watermelons. After I finished my food, I go.

Sure enough, after finishing her food, she went happily for her, so call, dessert., 1 sugar donuts and 2 pieces of watermelons...

I was so proud of my baby... Suddenly I fell that she's growing so fast... Mommy love you so much Tisya. I wish I can spend more time with you baby girl.

Thursday, March 17, 2011

It's been 2 years, since we lost Ayah.

Al-Fatihah,

2 years ago, Ayah left us... without saying anything.. he just left with a smile on his face...
Ayah, I wished I had more time with you. I really do....
I admit that I never want to be "you" when I grow up,but I never want anyone else as a father.
You tought me a lot of things that I realized only after you left.
Thanks Ayah for being you. I love you ever so much and I'm missing you even more.

Al-Fatihah.

BPA Free feeding equipment.

Lately, theres buzz going around about BPA in feeding equipment especially baby feeding bottles. Government also have taken action to ban the bottle in near future. Akan tetapi, mengapa ramai yang make big fuss about why goverment did't implement the ban immediately? Ok, mula-mula lets see...

*What is BPA or Bisphenol A?
BPA is a chemical used in polycarbonate plastics and is used extensively in consumer products ranging from baby bottles to coffee makers. It can also be found in products such as laptop computers, CDs, car parts, water filters, and as linings in food and drink cans.


*What are the dangers for children?

Future fertility - BPA passes through the placenta from mother to baby, mimicking the behaviour of the natural hormone oestrogen. Even low levels of exposure while the baby is developing can cause lasting changes in reproductive and metabolic development.


Behavioural problems - Several studies have found that Bisphenol A at extremely low levels causes changes in brain structure and behavior in rats which scientists argue show the same reaction in humans.

Cancer - some studies have found that early exposure to BPA during infancy increases the risk of breast and prostate cancer in later

* Saya Google ye info ni.

So, bagi parents yang rasa kerajaan tak patut tangguh pengharaman botol sebegini, apa kata look it this way,
Kerajaan kena buat keputuasan dengan memikirkan banyak pihak. Jadi bagi parents yang asyik salahkan pihak lain, sampaikan isu botol apa nak bagi anak sendiri pakai, cuba fikir sendiri. Kerajaan dah announced kata BPA tu bahaya, sebagai parents, kita la decide sendiri nak pakai botol jenis apa untuk anak kita. Tak kisah la dah ban di kedai atau tidak. Yang nak beli kita, bukan penjual paksa pon kita nak beli botol apa.

Jadi, as parents, pilih la betul-betul apa yang kita nak beri pada anak-anak kita.Bukan sebab kerajaan ban atau tidak, tetapi atas dasar tanggungjawap terhadap kesihatan anak-anak dimasa hadapan.

* Mungkin lepas ni terdiam la orang-orang yang kata saya berlagak sebab beli botol mahal untuk anak-anak saya. :-)

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Keldai Dadah

Semalam ada lagi terbaca pasal mangsa sindiket sebegini, jadi "keldai dadah". Sindiket offer mangsa dengan percutian percuma, naik flight mahal, duduk hotel mewah and siap bagi pocket money sekali. Too good to be true right? But still some people still fall for it. Kalau terlepas, nasib baik. Kalau tertangkap, maka bermulalah mimpi ngeri mereka. Just lucky for this girl, 7 months je masuk penjara, ada yang lain tu, sampai lifetime pon ada...

This makes me wonder, why did they fall for it? Sebab desakan hidup ke, sebab advanture ke, or simply sebab they are realy naive. Tak sangka langsung depa kena trick.... Anyhow, those yang jadi mangsa sebab nak cepat kaya, memang kesian, Kononnya nak rasa living the high life, but end up going tru hell and not even sure they will be coming back. Bagi yang naive ni? Terpinga-pinga je kena tangkap. kena pulak yang tgh tggu nak naik flight, ada yang minta tolong bawakan beg, to those yang selalu travel, PLEASE DON"T CARRY OTHER PEOPLE LUGGAGE! Kalau depa kata nak gi toilet or something, suruh depa tinggal kat security. Sound so sombong kan? But better be safe than sorry (hehehe...pesanan penaja sat).

Bottom line is, sesiapa yang rasa dapat offer from anyone yang suspious, even if rasa macam once in a lifetime offer, just be very careful... kalau melibatkan kena bawak barang yang tak tau apa isi kandungannya, hentikan lah... Tak berbaloi kalau tetiba tertangkap and end up meringkuk kat jail memana dalam dunia ni. Takde jalan mudah nak senang, dan tak susah juga nak susah...

Hopefuly takkan ada lagi anak-anak muda kita yang termasuk dalam jerat "Keldai dadah" lepas ni. Kesian pada keluarga yang tinggal. Berusaha gigih la untuk menikmati kesenangan hidup,berpijak dibumi nyata serta sentiasa bersyukur. Insyaallah kita boleh...

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Her Story ~ Love Day

Tisya : mommy, yesterday we forgot to celebrate "love day" la...
Mommy : huh? "love day"? What's "love day" kak?
Tisya : love day la... we celebrate with everyone in our house...
Mommy : you mean with all the people we love?
Tisya : no... just with people sleeping in our house... like daddy, dadek, mama, mommy...
Mommy : ye la.. that people we love la... how to celebrate?
Tisya : aaa... my friend said...we have to go to 5 shops to celebrates?
Mommy :  uiks... 5 shops? Buat apa?
Tisya : ye la... we go shopping la... first we go buy new clothes, then we go buy new shoes,
then we go dinner, after that we buy cake and then we buy presents...
Mommy : waahhh... mommy tak nak la celebrate love day... too expensive la...


Aduai... kalau la "Love Day" tu betul, jenuh la Mommy and daddy nak layan Tisya. I love it that that Tisya already can hold lengthy conversation with me, provided she's in to the the topic la... I heart you Batrisyia..


Monday, March 14, 2011

Attempting to make a comeback...

I've been trying to make a comeback for quite sometime now...
As for today, I just managed to update the looks of my page.
I hope tomorrow, I'll be able to make more progress and maybe actually post something...